Have you ever stopped to think about why you use your phone? So many people own one but let their minds get caught up in it without direction. Instead of letting it control you, define its purpose in your life. Here’s how I approach it.
The beauty of a cell phone is that it’s more than just a device—it’s a communication tool, a high-quality camera, and, most importantly, a powerful resource to help you grow, all at a reasonable price. Think about it: you can run a full-scale business, educate yourself on anything, connect with the world, and capture it all on camera. That’s a game-changing tool. A cell phone is a one-stop shop for pursuing any life you desire.
How I Use My Phone (Without Apps)
When it comes to my phone, I keep it simple. I primarily use it in three ways: calling people, texting, and capturing my daily life.
• Calling – I use calls to connect with people, stay in touch with friends and family, and for life coaching sessions.
• Texting – Mostly for scheduling, but also to chat when calling isn’t an option. Texting makes scheduling effortless—someone can send me a time for a lesson, meeting, or reminder, and I can easily look back on it and log it into my calendar.
• Capturing Life – My favorite part of the phone is its camera. I love that I can take high-quality pictures and videos without the bulk of a high-end camera. I have tried carrying an expensive camera with me, but it was always in the way. A phone lets me document life without the hassle.
Using Apps with Intention
When I do use apps, it’s with a purpose. I leverage social media to promote and attract a specific type of person to a specific type of life. It also preserves my life history—creating a story that people can look back on.
That story is meant to connect with those searching for their own version of this life. Hopefully, they’ll reach out and eventually visit. If they love horses, great. If they’re into leadership, amazing. If they simply want to experience this beautiful part of the country, I’m happy to show them around. The key is intentionality—I present my life in a way that attracts the right kind of person. Someone searching for their own version of a ranch. Someone who values family. Someone who believes in the virtues of humanity.
I’m not interested in superficial people looking for an escape or a western themed amusement park. I hope to attract people who want to get better through the horse, or the teachings of horsemanship, in this beautiful environment here.
Avoiding the Trap of Mindless Use
That being said, I also play the game. I send likes without even looking at posts. Sometimes, I use my phone to reset for a moment between focus sessions. Other times, at the end of the day, I use it as entertainment.
But here’s what I never do: let my phone hijack the time I need for studying, applying knowledge, or reflecting. Phones shouldn’t be used as an escape from reality. Never let your device take away from awareness and connection.
What Does Your Phone Mean to You?
Take a moment today to define your relationship with your phone. Is it a tool or a distraction? Are you using it to enhance your life or avoid it?
We need to lift our heads, observe our surroundings, and connect with those who matter—especially children. We can’t parent, teach, or lead through a phone. Some things require your undivided attention, face-to-face in real time. Nothing can replace that.
Lead with purpose. Be present. Your life is happening beyond the screen.
Lead with purpose, not by the addiction to distraction.
